Peer Bree

Ziggy’s first ANZAC Day March, learning the value of his sacrifice, an ever evolving concept through concrete and relational means.

Open Arms Peers express their feelings on the situation in Afghanistan

I just wanted to acknowledge the information that has begun, and will likely continue, to come out of Afghanistan, and any feelings or responses that come with that.

For me, in the small snippets of exposure to the news that I’ve had, I’ve seen commentary that stings and hold a moral hurt for the people of Afghanistan, the interpreters, their families, the plight of our community in trying to provide support to getting them safely out of the country, now and over the past number of years.

I don’t appreciate my husbands’ death being written off as either senseless or in vain by people that have not experienced the sacrifice of service. I prefer to speak on my own behalf and encourage others to seperate personal reactions to those that represent others.

Having said that, personal perspectives that question are human. I believe all the feels are welcome and valid, it’s our responsibility to acknowledge them and direct them into the right places.

Do no harm.

I ache with my veteran family. Called to action, you stood side by side and marched towards the danger.

The burden of grief and loss is heavy and the dedication to service, to preserve human life, to providing opportunities for education, health and a chance at a trajectory at life that was otherwise stifled, will endure.

20 years is a long time and it’s human to question the value and worth of that dedication as these events so swiftly play out. Know that 20 years is huge to a young child that was paved a chance into adulthood by your sacrifice.

I will always remember the sacrifices your families, your loved ones, your children made, anticipating your return, and the legacy for those who never came home.

Ziggy engaging in soul filling activities, NOT reading the inundated messaging that questions his sacrifice.

I will always be proud of our community, and the work we do as peers and as a mental health service in supporting our wider veteran family to integrate their experiences of service and the burden that is carried by that service.

Open Arms is available if anyone wants a chat, now and always, thanks to its’ inception by the Vietnam vets who know only too well. I’ve found counselling more productive to communicating into a void of social media. There’s an element of fatigue when it comes to the moral questioning, worth, effort, sacrifice and purpose, especially whilst inundated with oscillating, simplified and sensationalised views of onlookers.

If it means anything, I value and appreciate all that you have sacrificed in you service, directly and indirectly.

Take care, be gentle.

Bree

My perspective, the only one I can speak for, is to acknowledge and feel the feels, provided rest and sustenance to our souls, and take action where you can to preserve life and minimise harm.

If you’re finding it hard to handle your emotions/trauma/anxiety etc. PLEASE reach out for a chat, we’re here 24/7 on 1800 011 046.